My Quinceañera and The Economy
Posted in Contributor, Economic Issues, High School Blogger on 02/18/2010 08:19 am by Mirubenat ObregonAs a Latina girl, I have lived in the tradition of having a BIG Quinceañera, and it’s just the party I have always dreamed of. I always imagined it to be in a beautiful hall with all my friends and family there. This year I am finally turning 15, and I have been doubting whether I should have a Quinceañera or not. My reasons are that the economy is definitely not the best right now. I don’t want my mom to work more hours because of me, and have to owe people money just because I want a huge party. I hate to see my parents struggling because there are times where we really have to dig into the savings to pay the bills that we were able to pay before with just my dad’s paycheck. I hear my dad saying, “Man! I don’t know what we’re gonna do next month, I don’t know if we will be able to pay the rent!” It’s definitely not something I like to hear because I don’t like when they stress out.
There are also times when I really think about what I ask for – if I want new clothes or if I need new shoes, I really think about asking for those things because I wonder if my mom has enough money to pay for them. My mom is the kind of person that, if I need something or if any of my brothers need something, she will give up something that she needs more just to make us happy. I don’t like that she’s like that because I feel bad that she will give up her own things.
Even though the economy is very bad right now, my mom is throwing me my party. I’m not asking for more than she can give because I know that I have to be thankful for whatever she can give me. I know that my mom is doing her best to make this party for me on her own because my dad can’t spend more money than he actually gets at his job. I know that even though we are not going to spend thousands of dollars on the party, it will be one of the best days of my life because my family will be there with me.
I think we have to be thankful for all the things we have and don’t take anything for granted because there are some people out there that don’t have jobs or even a place to live right now. I just hope that we will not be put into that situation because it’s not something anyone would like to go through. So, I just hope that things get better for us and everyone else out there who is going through the same thing. :)